What is she? She's his dad's wife thats what, and they both know it. She'd be cooking dinner, doing laundry, etc whether he was there or not. Maybe that makes her a maid to my x, I don't know and frankly its not my concern.
I won't argue with you about it because it is apparent we wont see eye to eye.. but I will leave you with one thought to toss around:
She and I have a great relationship and all three of us (x, his wife, and I) really work well together when it comes to ds. Apparently the relationship between your dh, yourself, and the cp is not as good as mine... so maybe there's some validity to my position.
