What the heck does that stuff above have to do with anything?
Do you have a court ordered parenting schedule? If so, you either file a Motion to change it or you follow it. If you don't have a court order, what do you sugest doing in the future? Disallow contact forever?
Certainly a court will ask, if he is such a bad guy, why has parenting time in the past occurred without objection? What new and recent event suddenly makes it no good?