I do NOT want to take ANY time away from their mother. BUT if what we offer is NOT good enough- and she is NOT willing to have them full time- then what else can we do. This is what I think will happen- she will take them when we offer her the time- in the beginning... she can have them 3 out of the 4 weekends a month, whatever.but in the end- she will stop wanting to see them on those times, other then her original times. Right now- in this school district- they have a 3 day weekend almost every month- at least once. January- there is new years...and martin luther king jr day is off. there are plenty of "off"days she can have them...just as now- IF she truely wanted to. but as she says- shes SOOOO busy- going out to dinner, getting her hair and nails done... etc... that she can only have them everyother weekend and on wed.
