Letting him know that, Yes, he does have a child and that things as major as child bearing do not just go away because you left the state for a few years. I guess he would make a piss-poor father from what I have seen of his behavior and personality. He has anger management issues. I don't know, it was almost like seeing a ghost when I saw him, i was shocked and feel like some action should be taken. Or maybe not. Maybe I, too, should just turn and run the other way. My son is doing awesome and my dad is a major part of his life so he does have a male figure. Grandfather, but male nonetheless. What do you think?