I know they are not just my babies. Its a figure of speech. Their father and I have always had a great relationship were our kids are concerned. I always let him see them when he wants and if our boys haven't heard from him, I encourage them to call. He has said numerous times that he would sign over his rights not to pay child support and I told him I would lower it or even drop it but he didn't need to do that. He recently got married and I haven't been able to talk to him or discuss anything with him since. We have never went by any schedule. Christmas, whatever, we have never made the boys feel like either one of us was better than the other and never down eachother to the boys NOTHING. I just don't know how to handle this, its really flooring because we have always had such great communication. As far as my new husband goes. Hes really great w/boys and they love him, but he got pulled over last month and got a DUI. I just hope that if it doesn't stay the same that he has the same approach to it as we always have and I can see them just as much as him. I've never had to deal with some much at one time and I want to do the right thing. Sorry to come off like they were "my babies" I didn't mean anything by that. I know we both love our kids to death and would both do anything in the world for them. Thanks
