Frank, you scare me. When I was child I couldn't see my father because he was a alcoholic that would binge drink during our visitations and leave us places. My mom did not want us to loose the relationship with our father but she had no choice but to cut it off after he started endangering our lives. Sometime you have to parent and not be your childs friend. Yes you should not have trashed the picture but that is really beside the point. Let me tell you if I knew that my ex was sending my daughter drug thing in the mail after I had her in rehab to help her, that person would not be permitted to see my daughter again untill she passed a drug screening. Your childs health and welfare is the issue, not this person that thinks she is a mother.
