Simple thing for you to do is not respond to my "crap" as you put it. I realize that you think you have single handedly made all these changes that you mentioned-so I guess reform is done and all is paradise in your world. For others of us reform is an issue.
your mention of whiney-ass in regard to people who complain- does that include all people who complain. If so are veterans who complain about poor medical facilities whiney-ass, parents who have lost a son or daughter in the war and complain about that,are they also whiney-ass. By the way yours is showing.
And I do not like to think of myself as a victim but I sure do know that my rights certainly have been trampled on by the laws and procedures of the family court system.
Again, Get a grip