Thank you for saying what I wanted to say. I thought I was the only one that thought he had a screw loose. Apparently all us chicks are in this great big club or something. Not that I have to tell you (because you know already) It is not a gender issue. He has no clue because the scope of knowledge only relates to his personal problem. If he had a vast knowledge of Divorce and Custody and what really goes on and that it is the system that is screwed up he would see. But I won't hold my breath.