A new add to the story...her oldest daughter, whom is 14 has now accused my H of molesting her once when she was bearly three. Keep in mind none of the accusations came about until we started trying to find his ex....on the 18th we called on the 20th his ex asked the counselor to talk to the child about it...that she had told a friend what happened. I have phone records. Does this sort of thing happen often?? Do kids lie for their parents???