Well all went well with the mediation. I got all i wanted, and she has EOW visits but due to his age and his lack of desire to be with her, it was also added that it is his choice to go or not-this way it keeps either of us from looking like the bad guy.
now tomorrow i am up against the county atty who was looking to garnish me for CS since she started filing for welfare. Hopefully the I have one kid, you have one kid will balance everything out, and i won't have to go through the garnishment ordeal again.