Help for my grandson?

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Posted by:

Nani

on July 22, 2007 at 13:15:26:

Pissed off mad grandparent! My grandson lives with me and his parents are fulltime students in college. But recently his father came into town for personal reason's. He came and got the baby and I already stated how important it was for him to bring the baby back and a reasonable time for his surgery. Well this past friday he didn't show up. It took for me to call him, for him to tell me he didn't have a ride to bring the baby back. My grandson was diagnosised with "tied tongue." It means he has a hard time pronouncing words because the webbing under his tongue is to long.

I was so upset that I had know choice but to call the doctors office and ask if I can reschedule his pre op? When speaking to his nurse she was sympathetic so she tried everything in her power to try and accommodate me. She said let me see what I can do. Mind you keep in mind this is his 3rd rescheduled apponitment for the same reason but one was for his mother the other was because his biological grandfather on his dad's side.

It's so frustrating when I'm always trying to give everyone the benefit of the doubt. But now I'm at the point where I'm done. I want to file for custody. Everytime their is an appointment for the baby everyone surrounding him fails to bring him home. ALL of their excuses is the same I haven't seen him in along time. What can I do to help myself and my grandson without going to the extreme. He's always neglected. Its like they don't care about his well being. I encourage them to spend time with the baby but when I ask them bring him home weather it's for his W.I.C apponitment or his Doctors apponitment everyone thinks there better then his health. Am I wrong...I don't think I AM! I'm trying to do whats in best interest of my grandson but his mother always tries to control everything from long distance and threntens to take him if I don't do as she ask. I don't think I can just sit back and watch him be a pond in everyones life. When one parent gets mad at the other....on and on...the drama never stops.

Well I want to stop it now, of course with some real advise.

Sincerely,
DESPERATE GRANDMOTHER




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