OK, so I tried HIS way, which was he wanted to pick up my 3 year old son from school everyday, and I pick him up from his fathers apartment. Last week, he cancelled everyday. Today he was suppose to pick him up and didn't call or anything- I called the preschool and my son was still there. I had found out that my X got out of work early, I picked my son up from preschool at about 5:30 he usually picks him up around 3:30-4:30. He calls at 5:41 and asks if I have picked him up, and I said yes, he says can I talk to him, I said yes. My son talked to him for a couple of seconds and hands the phone back to me, and my X asks if he can pick him up from school tomorrow, I said I am not going to allow you to hurt my son, and he said what do you mean?? I said everyday that child expects you to pick him up and then you don't show,what do you think that does to him? He said well I didn't know if you were going to allow me to, I said you know what- Everytime I call you want to fight and I am not going to play this game with you, and hung up. OK so maybe I shouldn't have hung up, he likes to manipulate so I knew if I kept talking it would have been more fighting or arguing, I don't have time for that, I am getting away from the marriage so I don't have to do that. So 1st of if I wasn't allowing him to pick up our son, why call and ask if I did? 2nd why did he call all last week and cancel, there were no references made since my last post. WE agreed that he would pick him up. 3rd, this can't be a convenience thing, cause that little boy expects him to be there and is heart broken when he isn't.
