Reasons for not picking up child were one was he had to go to his moms, one was he had to get a tow dolly, one day it was he had to pick up my SS, one day it was he had a meeting (he's in construction)one day it was he wanted to take his girlfriend to meet his family. I know how he was when I was with him and I guess I am use to being the fall back girl cause usually I had to clean up his messes, or if he decided when work was out the guys were going to the bar and he wanted to go I had to arrange my schedule to fit. I ALWAYS had to be the responsible one, cause I couldn't count on him to be that guy. He decides spur of the moment, when he gets off of work, to change things, he doesn't give much notice. (a couple of hours)