How would anyone interpret ths situation: If the custodial parent gies the required time for "vacation days" with the children and gives a letter stating that she is going to go out of town with the children.....however after 3 days I found out that she returned on my custodial day (which was requested as vacation time from her) and brings her mother to visit from another state and continues to keep the children on my days and lives a routine week...continuing to work as normal leaving the kids with grandma. Does this seem ok or would anyone perceive this as a manipulation of my time. She could have easily told me her mom was in town...instead of lying and trying to appear as if she was out of town the whole time.