I have never been someone that would hurt someone on purpose. So, I can't see how someone could use the love of a child to hurt another person. It s scarey! My grandson loves his dad and never wants to leave him, but its weird when I take him to met his mom, he screams no, and don't leave me, and carries on. I have wondered what that is about. I always thought he was just having to much fun at grandma's house. But, I do worry. She is a good mom, but I don't know anything about this boyfriend that lives with her and my grandson!