I was dating this guy back in 1999 and we dated until 2000. we broke up and i moved away. 3 weeks later i went to the doctor cause i was getting sick in the mornings... surprise surprise i was pregnant!!! i had been on depo shots so i never thoght it could be pregnancy. i heard the babbies heart beat that very same day. i was 16 weeks along. i called my ex to tell him and right away he said its NOT mine, IM TOO YOUNG!! meanwhile he was 19 and i was 17. i spoke to him a couple times and he denied being the father. i had no doubts. he saw my son once when he was 1 and then he vanished... i still spoke and visited his parents but they never spoke of their son. i am in a relionship with another man and we have had 3 more children. the man i am with has raised my son sinse he was 13 months old. my son knows that there he has another dad chris but thats it. well he contacted me 2 weeks ago and spoke with my son for a short time and hung up... i phoned him back and asked him why call now? it had been 5 years since i have seen or heard from him. i dont know what to do...i wnt him to pat child support but how do i bring it up without him getting worked up and scard and not hesring from him for another 5 years? he has since been married and had a son of his own. we have agreed to having a paternity test done and going from there.
