Not going to jump you. Good point on the first 2. The third, of COURSE I AM NOT going to thwart my son playing basketball...and I have been so nice for so long. Unfortunately, mom just doesn't get it.
Mom should have e-mailed asking before she signed him up...or acknowledged the conflict. However, this has been her MO...I was actually going to sign him up for soccer but it is amazing how a passive-aggressive move as such can thwart that. I know you think I am being anal but this is how she operates...through the kids then dares me to say no, and look like the ass Hee Haw