Haven't seen my son in 12yrs.His mother flat out refuses.Says if I even try she will take off and no one will find her,And has the money to do so. Ive come to the conclusion there is nothing I can do about that.Part of the reason shes so pissed is she claims she has never seen a dime when the child support comes right out of my check and has for yrs {although I am behind} but there is thousands of dollers she says she has never seen.This is not the first time Ive heard this my first sons mother told me the same thing 15 yrs ago and when I asked support enforcement for proof all I got was statements telling me CT recieved money I wanted more proof they told me thats all the proof I needed and was gonna get. So my? is how can I get proof thats the money is going where it is supposed to be going?