The only hope for now is to compromise...maybe you can celebrate the Thanksgiving Holiday later or earlier. Regardless, you will be at her mercy.
Regardless, I would file a motion to clarify. I would consider puting a parenting schedule together for the judge and submit it with the motion. Depending on the distance put together a shared plan...worse you would get is the standard orde. See your state laws for those guidelines.
sorry, I do not see much in your way unless you compromise with her