i NEVER said she was an abuser. i am not trying to take their mom out of their life. i just dont feel that we HAVE to send one of them (or either if thats what they choose) when they dont get any attention. mom sends son to go play video games- she hates them so she wont play them- and she hangs out with the girl. it isnt about abuse- the child feels that he isnt loved over there and that she truely doesnt want him there. he didnt even wanna go there for xmas! what 10 yr old boy doesnt wanna get xmas presents?!?!? i dunno- he just doesnt like going over there for whatever the reason may be.
