I am asking what would be better for my son.....he is with me almost 100% of the time right now....and I am not saying anything in regards to him moving back in with his parents...that statment was made because of something another person said about me moving back in with my "mommy" I was simply stating he did the same thing......... Alright and the making excuses not to work are not excuses......I am simply saying he refuses to help out with daycare..and because he makes over a certain amount of money.. I cant get reduced daycare....therefore I would have to pay full price ...so I would be working to only pay for daycare..with a minimum wage job...because daycare runs about 150+ a week here...and I refuse to put him in another cheap place because we had nothing but problems when we did that(my son came home his butt was bleeding babysitter didnt change his diaper all day and another one called in whenever she didnt feel like working)....so I dont think they are excuse....I have applied to alot of jobs for the few hours that I can get someone to watch my son...but without help from him on daycare I can not afford it on my own. Plus I do think it is in my sons best intrest to be with me since I am the one who sets aside everything to make sure he gets what he needs......and me saying he chooses his gf over my son......let me give u a few examples.......1.I say hey its ur birthday u know what take our son for the day and have fun....He says okay...then 2 days later says well I changed my mind he instead wants me to take him for the week so he can go to mass. to see his gf. 2. He gets very little time with his son..so instead of spending the time he gets with him ...he has his mom come over and stay the night with him so he can go to the bar with his gf and they can get a hotel. 3. He has just told me that instead of spending time with his son..this week and next he would rather take a 9 day vaction to his gf (instead of her comin here) and passes on seeing his son. and that is just a few of the times he has done this......I have countless times he has done this.....and he thinks having him more is going tp be better...hes going to go broke paying for a sitter every night so they can go out.
