Oh I know...and 50/50 is BIC with a rebuttable presumption. It is not perfect in every case. And if dad moved (and I do not recall you saying how far other than another state) then it may not work in your case. But how I see it: you abandoned him, you have no license, no job and refuse to get one...hmm, he could have an argument for custody and you probably have no money to fight him on it...since you refuse to work.
