There is no order for visitation rights, or no custody order everytime they go to court it is for child support and he pretty much has no say then because the prosecutors to busy making him look bad. She acts like everything is cool in court and when they get out of court everything stays the same all she wants is money. He has offered to have them live with him and still give her money but she has refused they are her way to get to him, He has tried to talk to her about the children but, all she wants to talk about is them and why they are not together. She has left them on our doorstep and dropped them off with no extra clothes for the weekend or whenever she feels the need to come back and get them.