http://www.nancm.com/?page=home
Apologies if anyone thinks I shouldn't just be redirecting people to ohter sites here, it is just that there are so many mothers there, who are bound to offer support, and apologies for not having better advice to give you myself.
One bit of advice I would give is to try to take your time when telling your story, and don't expect people to take it all in straight away.
Graham