I also lost custody of my three boys Oct. 2007 this was devastating, it was not because I was deemed unfit, but because I had no money for lawyer fees and what not and my X had all the money....so he got custody....Now it has been since Oct. 2007 that i have had visitation with my boys because their father won't allow it...I miss them dearly and pray everyday....Moms keep your head up one day your children will come back to you....